Shannon, It fascinates me how much of the trolling you get is simply 180 degree projection. The fact is that you are very graceful and dignified in telling the truth. But the main thing is, you're a solid writer. I'm a therapist and have been for a long time, so truthfulness is not a novelty in my world. It might be easy for me to tire of certain topics. But I never get tired of reading you, and that's because of the writing. I lived in TN for my entire adult life until just 2 years ago, and it delights me to know you are there. As if that means I get to claim you as part of my family-of-choice.